Foster caring isn't just a job; it’s essentially a lifestyle choice and affects all aspects of your life and the life of your family.
In our experience, becoming a foster carer doesn’t just happen overnight and people don’t just see an advert and think ‘that’s what I’ll do’. The majority of enquires we receive are from people who have been giving it a great deal of thought and consideration for a while – sometimes it may have only been a matter of months, other times it has been years. Most enquirers tell us that they have spoken at length with their families and friends about their intentions and so by the time they actually make contact with us, they are clear that this is what they want to do.
Often people considering fostering have a list of questions, concerns and worries - even if it’s just in their mind rather than written down. Initially we find that they may be a little cautious about speaking to us, in case we have them signed up and have delivered a child to them by tea time! Our approach is that we welcome all enquiries and will strive to answer any questions they may have. We recently introduced Information Evenings across our region which have all been well attended and give people the opportunity to find out more about fostering and our agency in an informal and possibly in their opinion a slightly less pressured environment. We clearly go through the stages of the recruitment process and what the approx timescales can be for the necessary checks, training courses and assessments involved in becoming a foster carer.
The initial visit in a potential carer’s home is one of the first stages, this is conducted by one of our Senior Supervising Social Workers and they spend time with the applicant(s) answering their questions, understanding their concerns and finding out about their life(s), families, work and interests.
The next stage is for an application form to be completed and then for a social worker to be allocated to the carer for assessment. It’s during this stage that checks are done including CRB’s and medical assessments.
Successful applicants at this point are invited to the Skills to Foster training course and then finally it’s taken to panel for approval.
Not everyone who applies to become a foster parent will go through to approval, the decision not to proceed can be taken by either party at any stage and can be for a variety of reasons e.g. the applicants may decide on reflection that fostering isn’t for them, they may have had a life changing event which means they want to put it on hold for a while i.e. a death in the family or the arrival of a new baby, a house move or job offer. Occasionally the decision has been made by the agency and again could be for a number of reasons e.g. checks may have identified something that means they are not suitable or that it is felt they don’t have the relevant skills or lifestyle that would be suitable for fostering. As an agency we make it our policy to communicate fully with our applicants and explain these reasons as early and clearly as possible to minimise any effect this could have on the people involved.